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T.J. Watt is well-known for being one of three brothers who all play in the NFL, but at home, he’s a husband and a dad.
The Pittsburgh Steelers linebacker married Dani Watt (née Rhodes) after six years of dating in July 2022. The couple first met as student athletes at the University of Wisconsin-Madison and got engaged in 2021.
“When I was a little girl I never thought I’d find someone special enough to ever change my last name… But I found him and couldn’t be happier to share a name with the man of my dreams,” Dani wrote on Instagram after their wedding.
In March 2025, T.J. and Dani announced the arrival of their first child, daughter Blakely.
Who is T.J. Watt’s wife? Here’s everything to know about Dani Watt.
She grew up in Wisconsin
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Dani grew up in Waukesha, Wis., where she attended Waukesha West High School. She was named to her school’s prom court and played both basketball and soccer.
Dani went to the University of Wisconsin-Madison
She graduated from the University of Wisconsin-Madison in December 2020 with a degree in life sciences communication.
A student-athlete, Dani played soccer for the university. In 2019, she was named Big Ten Forward of the Year and received an All-America Second Team honor.
Dani was also a three-time Academic All-Big Ten honoree.
She is a former professional soccer player
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In 2020, Dani played one season for the Chicago Red Stars in the National Women’s Soccer League. The following year, she signed with Thróttur Reykjavík, a professional team in Iceland.
During her tenure in Iceland, she posted photos of herself exploring the country, including photos of a trip her family took to visit her there.
Dani retired from soccer in February 2023.
“This was not an easy decision for me, but my body and my mind are ready and excited for another chapter,” she wrote on Instagram. “This game introduced me to so many amazing people, took me to places around the world that I could only dream of, and taught me how to overcome adversity.”
Dani played soccer with her sister-in-law
Before they were sisters-in-law, Dani played for the Chicago Red Stars with Kealia Ohai, who married JJ Watt in 2020.
When Dani announced her engagement to T.J. on Instagram in 2021, Ohai commented, “I’m so happy❤️.”
She also played basketball
Not only did Dani play soccer in high school, but she was also a basketball athlete who put up impressive numbers. She was captain of the basketball team in both her junior and senior years.
In her final season, she scored more than 1,000 points and held her high school’s all-time scoring record at the time.
“Dani is not only one of the best soccer players in the state, but she’s also a leading scorer in Wisconsin for basketball,” UW’s women’s soccer head coach Paula Wilkins previously said.
She has two brothers
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Dani has two brothers: Drew and Dylan. On Instagram, she described her older brother Drew as “a best friend and brother all in one.”
She’s also called her younger brother Dylan “the best younger brother a sister could ask for.” In an Instagram caption, she wrote, “You have the biggest heart out of anyone I know and I’m so proud of WHO you are.”
Dylan returned the praise when Dani and T.J. got married, jokingly thanking them for letting him be the “prettiest bridesmaid.”
She married T.J. in Mexico
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After getting engaged in 2021, the couple married in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico, in July 2022. T.J.’s Pittsburgh Steelers teammates — including his brother Derek Watt — were in attendance, in addition to Dani’s soccer teammates from throughout her career.
Snaps from the big day revealed ocean views and a bustling dance floor. Even Dani and T.J.’s initials were projected onto a nearby cliff.
Dani and T.J. share a daughter
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T.J. and Dani are parents. They announced the arrival of their first child together, daughter Blakely Marie Watt, in March 2025.
“Worth The Wait,” the couple captioned a joint post on Instagram, which featured several sweet photos of their newborn baby girl.
