All About Wynonna Judd’s 2 Children, Elijah and Grace Pauline

Wynonna Judd has been a mother since 1994.

The singer shares two kids with her ex-husband Arch Kelley III: son Elijah and daughter Grace. Their births in 1994 and 1996 came shortly after the singer embarked on a solo career following her success performing in The Judds.

Wynonna’s feelings about being a mother didn’t waver throughout her career or changes in her personal life. In 2007, Wynonna’s second husband, D.R. Roach, was arrested and charged with sexual battery of a minor, though his victim was never publicly identified. He pleaded guilty to criminal attempt to commit aggravated sexual battery. Wynonna filed for divorce days later.

The singer told Ladies Home Journal she was only focused on her children following the split, telling the outlet. “I am a mother first and foremost. I’m now focused on saving myself and the children.”

Several years later, however, Wynonna’s daughter Grace has come forward with allegations that she was sexually abused by her ex-stepfather Roach at the age of 10 and also claimed Wynonna was “never a mother.”

PEOPLE was unable to reach Roach for comment regarding Grace’s allegations.

In a July 2025 interview with The Daily Progress, Grace said that before Roach’s arrest, her mother tried to unite the family with counseling.

“So is my mom rich? Yeah, she’s so rich that she was able to sweep me under the rug and abuse me and then cover it all up,” Grace said. “I don’t want to talk bad about my mom, but we’ll just say she’s a good performer. She was never a mother.”

A representative for Wynonna has not responded to PEOPLE’s multiple requests for comment.

Read on to learn more about Wynonna Judd’s two children, Elijah and Grace Pauline.

Elijah Judd, 30

Wynonna and Kelley welcomed their first child together, son Elijah, on Dec. 23, 1994. The “No One Else on Earth” singer gave her firstborn a family name. During an October 2022 interview with PEOPLE, Wynonna explained that her son was named after her “great, great, great grandfather,” whom she also mentions in The Judds’ song “Guardian Angels.”

At the time of Elijah’s birth, Wynonna and Kelley were not yet married. During a 1996 appearance on Entertainment Tonight, the singer addressed an interviewer who called the birth of her son an “unplanned pregnancy,” explaining, “I found myself feeling strange about that word because to me, even though I was politically incorrect, it was, I think, inevitable for Elijah to be here.”

“This is God’s way of saying, ‘It’s time for you to have a real life and it’s time to find out if you can get along with a man and not get on a bus and leave town and say I’ll see you later,’ ” she added.

During a 2007 interview with GRANDmagazine, Naomi discussed her grandchildren and noted one of Elijah’s best characteristics. “Elijah could be a standup comedian, and he knows that he has pleased me with his sense of humor since he was born,” the proud grandmother said.

Elijah proposed to his girlfriend, Hailey Williams, in December 2017 after seven years together. Wynonna shared several photos on Instagram documenting the moment, including a snap of her son down on one knee popping the question and one of the engagement ring, as well as several pictures of the newly engaged couple. They wed on Oct. 17, 2020.

For Elijah’s 26th birthday later that year, the country singer posted an Instagram photo posing with her son on his wedding day, revealing the date of the nuptials in the caption. She wrote in part, “To my first born, who turns 26 today, I look at this picture & it’s hard to believe that you’re married! Happy Birthday Son … I am so very proud of you.”

In the years before her death at age 76 in April 2022, Elijah’s grandmother Naomi also opened up to PEOPLE about her relationship with Wynonna and her grandchildren. Though she hadn’t seen her daughter much due to her touring and work schedule, Naomi told PEOPLE in 2016 that Wynonna and Elijah had made an appearance at one of her weekly Thursday night dinners. She explained, “Everybody knows that on Thursday nights at 6 o’clock if you’re in town, come over and there’s going to be tons of food and we do bent-over double belly laughs and we play games.”

Grace Pauline Kelley, 29

Wynonna and Kelley welcomed their second child together, daughter Grace Pauline, on June 21, 1996. During her 1997 interview with the Tampa Bay Times, Wynonna said she “almost died” when giving birth to Grace, adding, “Let’s just say, I don’t want to get back into the delivery room. But I came the closest I’ve come to dying. It’ll be a year in June, and I’m just starting to feel human again.”

She also opened up to the outlet about the special bond she shares with her daughter, explaining, “I have a separate and unique love for Grace. It’s funny when you have one and become pregnant again. You think, ‘How can I love another?’ But you make room.”

Growing up, Naomi described her granddaughter as having a “very strong-willed personality” to GRANDmagazine. She also said Grace was “incredibly creative” and could sing and dance, adding, “It is a bit scary because she is so intuitive with body language.”

In 2016, Grace was arrested for possession of meth. She was later sentenced to eight years in prison after violating her probation for leaving a court-mandated drug recovery program. The Sun reported she was granted parole in April 2021 but was arrested again that August for violating her probation. Grace was released from prison in December 2022.

Following a May 2023 arrest for violating parole and an order of protection, according to The U.S. Sun, Grace also served a five-month sentence at Putnam County Jail.

Grace was arrested again in April 2024 after she faced accusations that she “exposed her breasts and lower body” on a busy highway in Alabama and was carrying a sign that said “ride for a ride.” She was charged with indecent exposure, soliciting prostitution and obstructing governmental operations, according to court records obtained by PEOPLE.

Grace was arrested again in October 2024 after stealing a church van in Albemarle County, Va. While speaking to The Daily Progress in July 2025, Grace said that at the time, she “got a hold of some bad drugs and I was hallucinating.”

As part of a plea deal, Grace spent six weeks in jail and became sober, and said she has remained sober ever since.

Wynonna has scarcely discussed her daughter’s legal troubles publicly. However, the mom of two has become somewhat of a criminal justice reform activist. After her daughter was sent back to prison, Wynonna met with White House officials in 2019 to “discuss criminal justice reform and ways the administration can continue to enhance reentry programs for inmates and curb the return-to-prison rate,” per Politico.

In a February 2020 appearance on Fox Nation’s The Pursuit! with John Rich, she made rare comments about her daughter, telling the host, “I will tell you this. My daughter is the strongest Judd woman in our ‘herstory.’ ”

Grace is the mother of a young daughter, Kaliyah, who was born on April 13, 2022. Wynonna announced the birth of her granddaughter in a May 2022 Instagram post. In the caption, the singer reflected on how she would become “a healthier grandparent” to her first grandchild and “break the cycle of addiction & family dysfunction.”

Later that year, during an October 2022 interview on Today, she told Hoda Kotb that her granddaughter was her “rock” in the months after her mother’s death. She explained, “She’s 6 months old and she doesn’t speak yet but she looks right through me. She gives me hope.”